Umugabo Yasenyeye Sebukwe Inzu Yamwubakiye Nyuma y’uko Umugore We Amutaye Agashaka Undi Mugabo

Mu gace ka Homebay mu gihugu cya Kenya, haravugwa inkuru itangaje y’umugabo wasenye inzu yari yarubakiye ababyeyi b’umugore we nyuma y’imyaka 10 bari bamaze babana nk’umugore n’umugabo. Ibi byabaye nyuma y’uko umugore amutaye agahitamo kubana n’undi mugabo.
Uyu mugabo, utatangajwe amazina mu itangazamakuru kubera impamvu z’umutekano n’amategeko, bivugwa ko yari yarashyingiranwe n’umugore we mu buryo bwemewe n’amategeko, ndetse urugo rwabo rwamaze imyaka irenga icumi. Mu gihe cy’iryo sezerano, umugabo yagaragaje urukundo n’ubwitange bukomeye, aho yanubakiye ababyeyi b’umugore we inzu, nk’ikimenyetso cy’ukwishimira umubano n’umuryango wa sogokuru w’abana be.
Ariko ibintu byaje guhinduka ubwo umugore yatandukanaga n’uwo mugabo, amubwira ko atakimukunda kandi ko yamaze gufata icyemezo cyo kubana n’undi mugabo. Uwo mugabo ntiyabyakiriye neza, yumva yaratotejwe kandi yambuwe icyubahiro, maze afata umwanzuro wo gusenya inzu yari yarubatse kuri sebukwe.
Abaturage bo muri ako gace batangaje ko batunguwe cyane n’icyo gikorwa, bamwe bakavuga ko cyari ukwihimura gukabije, mu gihe abandi bumvikanisha ko umugabo ashobora kuba yararakaye cyane bitewe n’ukuntu urukundo rwe rwakinishijwe.
Uyu mugabo we avuga ko atari kwihimura, ahubwo ko yashakaga kwerekana ko atagomba gukomeza kuba mu gahinda yatewe no kwamburwa iby’imitungo ye yagezeho mu rukundo rwari rushingiye ku kubahana. Ati:
“Iyo umuntu agusenyeye urugo, ntiyubaka ku byo yakwambuye. Icyo nakoze ni uko nakuyemo ibyo nari narashyize mu muryango we nk’umugabo w’umwizerwa, none kuko ntacyabaho, niyo mpamvu natwaye ibyari ibyanjye.”
Inzobere mu mibanire y’abantu bavuga ko ikibazo nk’iki gisaba ubushishozi n’ubwumvikane, kandi ko gusenya inzu ari igikorwa gishobora kugira ingaruka z’amategeko, cyane cyane niba iyo nzu yari yanditse ku babyeyi b’umugore cyangwa ikaba yarubatswe ku butaka butari ubw’uwo mugabo.
Abaturage barasabwa kujya bashyira imbere ibiganiro no gushaka ibisubizo bitarimo ubushotoranyi igihe babonye ko urugo rubaye ikibazo, aho kugira ngo ibintu bikomere kurushaho.
Kugeza ubu, nta makuru aramenyekana niba hari icyo inzego z’ubuyobozi cyangwa iz’umutekano zaba zagize icyo zikora kuri iki kibazo.